myfriendshotmom Tanya Tate: Tanya Tate is surprised to see her son's friend home with an ice pack on his wrist. He'd been trying to use a shake weight to tone his arms but hurt his wrist in the process. When Tanya Tate examines the equipment, she can't help but giggle because it reminds of of something else, something she's wanted to do to Xander for a long time. And now that her son's out and about she can finally work on that love muscle.